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Gratitude - an Important Component
of your Marketing Plan

Gratitude is a fundamental practice of Authentic Self Promotion and should be one of the components of your marketing plan. Noticing all that you have to be grateful for, and regularly writing thank-you notes, are cornerstones of prosperity.

Experience this for yourself. Stop right now and make two lists. On one, name the five people who have caused you the most grief in business in the past year. On the second, name the five persons who have brought you the greatest benefits.

Address 10 envelopes, one for each of the names on your two lists. Every week for the next 10 weeks, write a thank you note to one of these 10 people and send it.

Naturally, it will be relatively easy to say what you are thankful for when you write the five people who have brought you clear benefits. If you only do this much, you will experience more positive moods and you will notice more of the pleasant aspects of doing business. As a result, it will be more pleasant for others to do business with you, and they will tend to do more of just that.

But don't stop there. When you write letters of gratitude to the five people who have brought you grief, I predict you will uncover learnings that will open the door to new opportunities for success. While you may choose not to send the letters to the folks who have caused you grief, by mining the painful experiences for the learnings at their core you will be radically altering the way these experiences influence your business.

How are you supposed to find something to be thankful for when a relationship has been troubled, perhaps even damaging to your bottom line? I propose that you cannot afford to have a loss you do not learn from, and once you have mined the learnings from a bad situation, you clearly have something for which to be grateful.

Informed Gratitude

Informed gratitude means being able to distinguish the value of lessons learned from the sometimes toxic source of those lessons. Cultivating appreciation and gratitude for all learnings is not to be confused with agreeing to be abused or mistreated.

This is not mere verbal sleight of hand. It is a practice of mental and emotional hygiene that is essential for maintaining a generative approach to the ups and downs of being in business.

This action requires that you be rigorously honest. It asks you to look deep into your heart and into your history to discover what your most difficult relationships or transactions have taught you. Then it asks that you graciously acknowledge, if only to yourself, the people who have been party to that learning.

It may be that you choose not to send the second set of notes. Perhaps you choose not to be in relationship with one of these people for very good reasons. In that case, you can still write your gratitude for lessons learned in your journal. This is not about sacrificing your dignity or compromising your values; it's about harvesting the learning from the bitter fruits as well as the sweet.

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Develop Your Small Business Marketing Plan - Index
Writing a marketing plan || 20 helpful questions for creating a marketing plan outline
A list of small business marketing strategies for developing your marketing plan
Gratitude as a component of a marketing plan || Your Marketing Plan Evaluation
Marketing Plan Resources || Reprint Terms for Marketing Plan Articles

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